Love Your Room

"Retirement is a period that will make you sick if you don't manage it with proper planning and strategies to make the most of it." For this, you have to love your room. Such love that the room can bear you. Because it's a tragedy that you can't love your room all your life, and at the age of seventy, when you have nowhere else to spend your time but this room, then this room comes to bite you and eat you. Then you gradually become a patient.

If my heart wants to, I start practicing on the golf mat in my room at three o'clock in the morning and listen to regular clear recitations of the Holy Quran for hours. I have a perfect feeling that the angels present at that time are also listening to this recitation with me and also the doors and walls of the room. The paint in the room, its doors, and walls, the laid carpet (or even the rough floor), the chirping rugs, the lighting, the room embraces you if you love everything. Because that is part of the age when you are not able to work hard and can not travel long distances, then it is not meant to spend time in the room, but you can be happy only by loving the room.

Instead of moving the pen on politics, current affairs, the economy, or fights, today the reason for this writing is an elder. When the 80-year-old man suffering from Parkinson's disease began to express his condolences, it seemed that this tragedy has always been faced by human beings, and especially in Pakistan, the impression has been strengthened that he has just retired and the person is not able to work. Stayed. Our society also makes a person sick by saying that he is finished, and sometimes it happens that a person spends most of his time after retirement as a patient in bed due to people's words and his wrongdoings.

I also wondered why if a Parkinson's patient is living life with a golf club in his old age and disease, why most of us are not able to enjoy this life. Golf is an expensive sport, admittedly, but a careful look at even the middle class reveals the fact that more often than not, our seniors retire after reaching the age of sixty, and more at that. It is our generation's fault that we make them feel that they are just an extra burden on society.

How many seniors are there who get graduation from technical fields? How many of our generation are interested in what happened to them in the course of their employment? How many people try to learn their craft from retired elders? And how many people think of providing their retired seniors with items of interest in their living room?

We have always used the stories of grandmothers as examples for a long time, but what are we doing today? We spend lakhs of rupees listening to the lectures of self-made motivational speakers, but why are we not interested in the stories of our retired elders? From a sweeper to a grade 22 officer, if you listen to the stories of retired people, believe me, we don't need any more motivational speakers. And these seniors will give you these lectures for free, for which self-made motivational speakers charge you lakhs of rupees.

Falling in love with your room It was a sentence of these elders to say, but in this one sentence, it was lost as if we have lost such a beautiful aspect of the declining age that can be useful for us. After retirement, an old table in the living room, a worn out chair, vases, quilts, an old-fashioned bed, a ratty bed, and the hope of someone coming…most of us find a similar scenario after our retirement. And the main correction in this is the intention of loving your room instead of hoping for someone. How to do what the heart has not been able to do for your whole life? Adopting this original thinking in this retirement life can save us from many psychological problems. Organizing your room's doors and walls to suit your purpose from a rug to a sofa, and spending time in your room as if you were on vacation at your favorite destination can seem like a daunting task. But the question again is still that if a Parkinson's patient can adopt such a style, why can't completely healthy people develop such a positive trend in themselves at the time of retirement? Yes, but the question again.

In one sentence of the elder, there is a clear message not only for the elders living a full life but also for the young generation, there is a plan of action that first of all, we should love the place where we come free from the shackles of all places. are Even after the most troubling situations, if we find a place where our love is reflected from the door and wall, then, believe me, we will leave behind many problems.

Arranging every inch of the room with your desires, longings, and feeling of love, believe that your heart will say Falling in love with my room. And being caught in this love, this love of ours will continue even after retirement.